Do you know what squirting is and how it really works? Here’s everything you need to know to make your partner ejaculate.
What is squirting?
The meaning of squirting is simple: in English, the word squirt means splash, spray, and this name is due to the fact that the woman has a spraying orgasm in which she does not ejaculate from the vagina, but from the urethra (the smaller hole from which she normally urinates).
The liquid is not made up of just urine, in fact it is also a kind of prostatic fluid similar to the male one, its origin comes from the Skene’s glands and the paraurethral glands which fill with fluids thanks to precise stimulation.
How to make a woman ejaculate
The technique for squirting is simple: it is necessary to intensely stimulate (gently though, please) the famous G-spot, which is not very easy to find, but is a very sensitive spot inside the vagina that reacts to strong pressure.
It is located on the anterior part of the vagina, about 5 cm from the opening.
Some prerequisites for making a woman squirt are:
- Make her relax: foreplay is essential. A massage, kisses, caresses on the clitoris and, once you are both aroused enough, you can start penetrating her with a finger. It’s important that she is well lubricated to avoid discomfort, perhaps by buying a water-based lubricant.
- Stimulate the right spot: once you see her ready, relaxed and you are already stimulating her with a finger, try inserting a second one. Two fingers (especially the middle and ring fingers) help to reach and better stimulate the G-spot. You need to look for the urethral sponge, that spongy cushion of tissue, similar to a small ping pong ball on the upper part of the vagina (when she is lying on her back). Don’t forget the clitoris, which should also be stimulated.
- Move your fingers in a precise way: insert your fingers 3-5 centimeters, bend them slightly in an arc pointing towards the top of the vagina and move them rhythmically up and down, but also back and forth. The speed can vary, just observe how she reacts and adjust accordingly.
During stimulation, many women feel the urge to pee and contract their pelvic muscles at the moment of orgasm to hold back, not all are used to this sensation.
Orgasm with squirting during penetration
It is possible to enjoy female squirting even during normal sexual intercourse, it all depends on the angle of penetration: you need to make sure the penis stimulates the G-spot with quick and intense movements.
The vibrator for squirting
If you can’t achieve the result with your fingers, you can try a squirting vibrator: you need to choose one with a slightly curved tip (aka: banana-shaped) designed specifically to reach the G-spot and trigger the squirt.
Do all women squirt?
Squirting is something for everyone, there are no genetic differences that can prevent it, but obviously the woman must want to try, know herself very well, trust her partner and be able to relax.
